Introduce Your Dog to Your Baby

May 9, 2013 at 2:28 am 2 comments

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This article is written by Cesar Millan on his Cesar’s Way website.  While I don’t always agree with his training techniques, I think this is a pretty good article about introducing your dog to your new baby.  I hope you agree.

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Our dogs are very in tune with us, so with an event as  monumental as a pregnancy, your dog has already sensed that something is up.  But just because  she has picked up on the new feelings hanging in the air,  doesn’t mean that she  understands what they mean.

Here are a few tips for  preparing your dog for the new arrival.

Focus on leadership.

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Nine months are more than enough time  to work through most issues and establish  yourself as  the unwavering Pack leader. Smooth out any small problems you may be having. Break her of unwanted  habits. If necessary, hire a professional to  work with you. You will appreciate the work you put in now when you bring your newborn home to a calm,  well-behaved dog.

Be aware of your energy.

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A pregnancy affects the entire household. You may feel excited, anxious, or worried. Remember, your dog will mirror your emotions.

Claim your baby’s scent.

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Bring an item that contains your baby’s scent, such as a burp cloth,  from the  hospital before bringing home the baby. During this exercise, it is crucial that you set clear boundaries. Challenge the dog to sniff from a distance, while you are holding the item. By doing so, you are communicating to your dog that the item is yours and then giving  permission for the dog to sniff. “This new item belongs to me, and you will  need to follow my rules when around it.” This helps start the process of  creating respect for the baby.

Establish boundaries around the nursery.

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I recommend starting with the nursery off-limits. Condition your dog to understand that there is an invisible barrier that she may not cross without your permission.   Eventually, you can allow your dog to explore and sniff certain things in the room—with your supervision. Then you decide when she needs to leave. Repeat this activity a few times before the baby arrives. This will let your dog know that this room belongs to a pack leader and must be respected at all times.

Control the introduction.

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Start by taking your dog on a long walk.  Be sure to drain all of your dog’s energy. Before returning, wait at the door step; make sure your dog is in a calm-submissive mode before inviting her in. Upon entering, your dog will instantly know there is a  new scent in the house. If you have already  introduced the scent, it will be somewhat familiar.

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The mother or father holding the baby must be in a completely calm-assertive state. The dog should be  allowed to sniff the baby, but at a respectful distance. During this first meeting, do not bring the baby too close. Eventually, the dog can be allowed to get closer and closer to the baby. By doing this, you are teaching the dog to respect the baby as another pack leader.

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Teach your baby.

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Once  your child is in the exploratory state, it is important to supervise all interactions between him or her and the  dog. This is a great opportunity to teach your child not to bother the dog,  yank her tail, etc. These lessons on mutual respect cannot begin early enough.  Too many children have inadvertently provoked an  otherwise peaceful dog, simply  because they were unsupervised or their parents  had not given them proper  instruction.

Don’t forget the dog.

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A dog does not need toys or special attention to feel important; you simply need to maintain the routine, providing daily walks and consistent leadership.  This will help your dog feel secure and allow her to relax about the new addition to the family.

Forget breed.

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Don’t assume your dog will not pose a problem based on breed alone, or vice versa.  Sure, babies have been bitten by Rottweilers and pit bulls, but they have also been injured by labs, chows, and mixed breeds. A baby in Rhode Island was killed by a cute little Pomeranian. What is the key? Leadership.

 

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  • 1. Heather  |  May 9, 2013 at 4:09 pm

    I don’t necessarily agree that the dog needs to be kept out of the nursery. If that is what you want, that is one thing, but I don’t think it’s a necessity. I never made our nursery off limits, and if I did, I think Jackson would have been SO much more stressed out. That dog followed me into the nursery and sat behind the rocking chair EVERY SINGLE TIME I went to feed LJ – he wanted to be there to make sure we were all okay and he just needed the comfort to know everything was good. He would have been so sad if I would have left him in the hall each time.

    Also – very cute picture of Ava sniffing LJ. But SUPER embarrrassing picture of me walking with the family in my super bright fruity pajama pants. haha

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    • 2. roadrunner33  |  May 9, 2013 at 5:25 pm

      Thanks for your comments Heather! I totally agree that you don’t need to keep your pup out of the nursery. You can see it says that he needs to come in only at your request though. I still think that’s important.
      You did a great job introducing Ava and Jackson to your little boy and I’m sure it will go smoothly with this next one too!

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